How to Manifest Love When It Feels Like It's Not Working
Okay, so you’ve been manifesting for a while and NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO—it seems like you’ve plateaued.
You’re trying to get back into alignment. It kind of works. You’re doing your affirmations, visualization and any of the small tips and tricks you’re learning off of YouTube.
But it’s like these techniques aren’t working for this stage of your life.
So let me share with you why that’s happening because many of us find ourselves here.
There’s 2 types of manifesting. I should say 2 layers of manifesting.
The first one—the one that’s all about trying to visualize what you want, give yourself permission to have it and really feel into what you want to attract it from that place. You start to see it working, and notice there is something to whole co-creative process.
The second layer—the most challenging but rewarding of them all—is the surrender element of manifesting and the deeper work that comes with it.
You’re probably ready for layer 2 if you’ve found yourself here and are already resonating with what I’m sharing.
This is a great news because it means you’ve graduated from the more surface-y or ego-manifesting as I call it.
And more than that, it’s proof that the Universe is in your favor right now and has some incredibly meaningful things ahead for you. YAY!
Sure, you might be feeling stuck, but that isn’t the full picture here. We often find ourselves stuck when we find that we are trying to control, and when that control doesn’t yield results—we feel like it’s not working.
Right? I know you know exactlyyy what I’m saying here. Because you can feel it.
In the manifesting community, were taught to keep trying to make things happen, and if it’s not, to keep trying something new.
But that isn’t exactly the whole story.
Manifesting doesn’t mean just trying to control everything that happens to you. It means surrendering to everything that’s happening for you.
Read that again.
You might want the person on your list, and the only reason you’re not getting them right here, right now, in the way you’ve described it is because there’s something even better for you that you need to surrender to.
But you’re getting in your own way because you still have a desire to control who you think is best for you instead of being open to the unknown.
And therein lies what you truly need.
What we all need.
In layer 1, the “beginner” levels of manifesting as I believe, you start to learn that you have a say in how your life goes. You’re not living life out of control and your life isn’t in the hands of other people. You start to see that your life is in the hands of a powerful source that wants the absolute best for you and you are in a co-create process together.
And in layer 2, the embodiment element of manifesting, you surrender to that powerful source because you know it has a magnificent plan for you, on a timeline that is far better than what you can see right now.
Surrender is the next level to manifesting—it’s all about attracting what you desire by trusting a better timeline than yours, sitting in the unknown, and believing it’s all happening even if it doesn’t feel like it.
This is what I help you embody in my 10-day manifest your dream partner course. I’m taking you through an entirely new way to navigate your manifesting journey that adds to what you already know. We skip the first layer of manifesting, and focus on the second layer. So were not starting from scratch, although we are going to do a refresh on the elements of layer 1 manifesting.
We shift into a state of blissful surrender, self-love and the deepest trust you can have with the Universe. It’s what it took me to call in my partner. And I share with you how to keep your partner once you’ve attracted them, being one year into my lovely marriage with my husband whom I called in through these very techniques.
Because wouldn’t it be nice to do all this manifesting work without waking up each day hoping they’ll finally arrive?
Yes, yes it absolutely would. Because what’s the point of doing all this work when you’re continuously slipping out of that state of trust?
That’s what you need right now. Trust. Faith. Knowingness.
And with this course, that is what you will go away with. Walking through your life without wondering where they are because you know they’re showing up at the right time and you trust that you’re being guided each day. You won’t try to force yourself on dates because you’re worried it won’t happen for you.
You’ll know it will, and you can sit back and allow what is to come on it’s own timeline.
PLUS, when you join my 10-day program, you’ll get a bonus advanced training recently added that dives incredibly deep into surrender. Or buy it solo here.
You were guided here for a reason, to get in touch with the deeper aspects of manifesting. And today you get to choose what you feel guided to do next.
Thank you so much for choosing to read today’s manifesting article.
I hope to see you in one of my manifesting courses!
Hey there, I’m Nancy! I’m a Manifesting Mentor dedicated to giving you conscious advice to help you call in your dream partner! Why? Because I manifested my husband and couldn’t be happier—you deserve that too!