Is there a movie or book out there where a professional matchmaker goes through a breakup and then for the next few years struggles to find love, only to then find a spiritual teacher magically on a boat one day who then teaches her for the next several years all about healing, spiritual growth, manifestation and how to have true self-love to eventually find her husband and live happily ever after?

Well, that’s my story. My life story literally sounds like Lauren Weisberger (author of The Devil Wears Prada) wrote it herself.

Throughout all my relationships before meeting my husband, I was seriously anxiously-attached (of course I didn’t know it at the time), dating people who—don’t get me wrong—cared for me in their own way, but not the way I needed to be loved.

Or liked me a WHOLE LOT in the beginning and then somehow got scared.

And let’s not talk about my experience dating as a professional matchmaker…cause people on the apps never knew if we were on a date, or if I was scouting for my clients. (Like I said, right out of a juicy book.)

In 2017, a year after my most significant breakup ended, I was still so angry—I know you relate, I’m sure.

“How could you do this after everything I’ve done!”

“Why didn’t you fight to keep me!”

“How is it so easy for you to move on!”

And so I called my spiritual teacher in desperation at what I believe was 11:00 p.m on a weekday. She told me I needed to do spiritual inner work if I was really going to figure out why I felt so incredibly stuck.

That conversation, and giving myself permission to be on that journey is the reason I am so happy today and have manifested the beautiful love life I have—married October 2021 and moving into our new home this October.

My story can be your story—I promise this breakup is a spiritual evolution.

So, my sweet friend, let this breakup be the reason your future self will thank you.

xo
Nancy