6 Seriously Legit Reasons to Hire a Breakup Coach in 2021

You’ve been Googling “how to get over a breakup” along with “breakup coach” and have found this page. You’re recently out of a relationship and realizing just how much you need support in this time.

As a breakup coach, I help you rediscover yourself after your breakup, but that’s not all; I’ve written this brief article to help you get a sense of what’s in store for you once you make the bold move to work with me, and invest in your own wellbeing.

Let’s explore the specific ways you grow as a person through my coaching:

Enhanced Self-Awareness

You might be really confused right now as you hear multiple voices in your head telling you what to do.

On one hand, you hear a voice of reason, the one that says: don’t text them.

On the other hand, you have the voice that won’t stop nagging you, “you really messed up, you need to get back together with them.”

Through our coaching, I’ll show you how to be the observer of your own thoughts, so that you make powerful decisions that align with your Truth.

You’ll stop feeling like you need to give into those uncontrollable thoughts, and start feeling like the powerful person you truly are.

Increase in Self-worth

Most people think it’s their preferences (“I want someone tall, dark, handsome, and smart”) that attract people into their lives—wrong.

It’s our self-worth that attracts people into our lives. But, the key here is that this is happening at such a subconscious level that you might not fully even believe it as you read this. But you have a hunch…

If you have found yourself in a relationship with someone who—more often than not—makes you feel “crazy,” or overall, just bad about yourself, it might mean your self-worth needs a little TLC.

Sometimes our low self worth talks and sounds like this:

“you’ll never find someone better than them” (even if you’re not even that fulfilled in the first place)

“you’re not good looking enough for anyone else”

“You don’t deserve to be happy so just stay in this mediocre relationship”

Do any of those ring a bell to you?

Through breakup coaching, we let go of the limiting beliefs we develop over time that led us to a relationship that did not serve us. We explore the deeply-ingrained beliefs that have affected your ability to truly see your loveable, worthy self.

Spiritual Reactivation & Heightened Intuition

Whether you consider yourself a spiritual person or not, we all have a guidance system within us that has a lot more knowledge than we can understand at a conscious level.

Right now, you’ve likely tabulated the amount of red flags you’d wished you seen in the beginning. That first time you saw (or felt) the red flag, you probably just made up an excuse for why you let it slide.

When we have a “hunch” about something but rationalize our way of out of accepting that what we feel is legitimate, we turn away from our intuition (our gut) that has a lot of wisdom for us to follow.

Our intuition is the most powerful tool we have—and not just in relationships but LIFE—and I want to support you in getting more in touch with it.

Healthier, More Conscious Future Relationships

It’s possible that you’re reading this article as you weren’t in a relationship with someone who felt the mutual, purposeful, and committed way you feel a relationship should look like.

As I mentioned, our self-worth attracts us to certain people. The way to find healthy, conscious partnerships is by letting go of the fear that tells us to settle our version of mediocrity.

When we operate from a place of love, and let go of fear, conscious relationships will find their way to us.

Inviting and Allowing the Right Things Into Your Life

Once we let go of the idea that we are meant to be with our ex, we can really start inviting new and awesome things into our lives.

Remember, the right people and things are with you right now.

The things that aren’t meant to be here are not.

Sometimes we get so stuck on what we don’t have, that we forget about what we do have, and what is still to come. We end up dwelling, and staying in, and feeling sorry for ourselves.

But when you accept that this is part of your path, your perspective changes, and you let better opportunities walk right into your life.

Overall sense of joy and inspiration

The emotional baggage that we carry around when we are processing our breakups is heavier than we know; so when we work together to release that tense energy, you’ll naturally feel lighter—almost like you just lost 20 pounds!

You might even have a skip in your step. You’ll smile more. You’ll know that feeling of clarity. You will feel inspired to go out and do the things you didn’t do because you were so focused on the needs of your ex that you didn't actually take care of yourself first.

You’ll put yourself first.

Let’s get through your breakup together. Book me for a session today.

Hey there, I’m Nancy! I’m a Conscious Breakup Coach dedicated to giving you conscious breakup advice during, well—one of the hardest times of your life. Let me know if this blog resonated for you by leaving a comment!

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