10 Essential Reasons Every Man Needs Breakup Coaching
You’re curious about breakup coaching, but you’re not sure it’s for you just yet.
Find out the 10 Essential reasons people seek my breakup-specific guidance.
He thinks he’s a bad boyfriend after his last relationship
I kid you not, one of the top reasons people seek out my services is because they want to know if they’re a “bad” boyfriend after their last relationship, and how to be a better boyfriend if this is true.
They tell me they’ve done things they’re not proud of, or have heard their exes talk about them in a negative way. They want to know if her perspective is truer than his. What I do is help them understand their core beliefs that govern that type of thinking, as it’s a little deeper than what your ex has said.
PS. Grab Your Ultimate Guide to Getting Through Your Breakup here.He wants to know what she was truly thinking about the whole breakup.
Many relationships fall out without the proper communication, and many times, someone gets blocked off social media, and even Venmo. He comes to breakup coaching because he wants to know what her actions (or lack thereof) actually mean, and how to deal with the lack of communication. They are wanting closure in a time where it’s impossible to ask for it.
He wants to know how to attract the right woman into his life
After a long-term relationship or marriage, guys reach out to me as they realize they’ve forgotten how to date. More than that, they can’t help but compare their exes to each new woman they meet. They continue to say they’re “not ready for a relationship” to which their dates end up getting upset over this. They want to let go of constantly thinking about their ex, and their last relationship.
He wants to know why “this” keeps happening
Many men report being aware they have certain women they go for, and feel like they’re getting burned every time. They don’t quite know why this keeps happening. I help them uncover their relationship and dating patterns, along with their limiting beliefs about relationships. So much of how we date is at the subconscious level, and deeply ingrained in us through simple interactions in our childhood. My coaching is helpful for people who want a deeper dive into why they attract certain “types” of girlfriends.
He wants to get his ex back.
A popular request, many men have searched the internet far and wide to the elusive answer to, “how do I get her back?” I take my clients through a series of deep work to help them discover if this is actually what they want. In addition, I help them feel settled with that decision.
He’s tried therapy, but wants a more unique approach to handling the breakup
Many of my clients have already been to traditional therapy, but didn’t love the impersonal aspect of it. I personally was mentored by counsellors, and my coaching program was run by a psychologist, so I know first-hand the benefits of therapy. That said, my approach is one that involves working through a more spiritual aspect of ourselves. My clients report loving the focus on mindset, spirituality, and uncovering subconscious beliefs. Check out what others say about the process here.
He hasn’t broken up with his ex, but thinks he needs to
I’ve worked with an array of men who are seeking help before they end their relationships; they are loving and conscious men who want to approach their breakups in a healthy way. I help men go over their core reasons for ending the relationship, and see if we can dig a little deeper to reveal limiting beliefs that are holding them back from making the decision. We also explore together if this decision is right for him.
He wants a more open way to get support
My clients talk about their amazing support from guy friends and mentors, but for their breakups, they’re looking for guidance from a woman. They want the advice that can come from working front-and-centre with couples as a former-matchmaker, so they can get insights from a relationship industry insider.
He wants to know the breakup was the right decision
Although at the time, it can feel like it was the right decision, but on those lonely nights, it doesn’t feel that way at all. He wants to know how to align his mind and heart so he doesn’t feel so unsettled about the decision. He wants to feel good about leaving the relationship (even if it wasn’t him who instigated it).
He wants to process the breakup in a healthy, conscious way
It still surprises me when I hear my clients say, “I know people think guys don’t want help, but we do,” because we are all human wanting to be our best selves, and part of that is being open about our experience. Men and women equally want to talk about their breakups, but society has made it tough for men to reach out for support. This is exactly why I created this business in the first place. Men deserve a place to process their breakups in a healthy, conscious way.
If any of these situations sound like you, reach out to me for more information on my personalized process, or to book session with me here. If your circumstance isn’t listed, reach out to me and let’s talk about how we can work together.